Is it possible to like interacting with people, yet need time alone? To really enjoy working in a team, yet cherish a night of solitude? I have always defined myself as an introvert. It provided a convenient excuse when I just didn’t want to deal with people. Though I do need my solo time to recharge, that’s for sure. But I also need to be social. Not all the time and not for extended periods of time, but a life of solitude doesn’t really appeal to me either. It’s an interesting contrast.

I am on the road this week. Again. I’m not going to complain because I really enjoy working with clients, attending conferences, and seeing friends. It also means I’m busy, which is key in a small shop. But Monday night I didn’t want to mingle. In a conference situation I’m always on. It’s exhausting.
By the end of the day Monday I was done. Normally I’d just get room service and stare at my computer, pretending to be ‘productive’. But Monday night the idea of another night in a nondescript hotel room wasn’t interesting. I needed to do something, but there were no major sports in town. And the local ballet and shows were dark since it was Monday night. Thankfully a quick search of the Google showed me the answer. It was time for some solo exploration. I found a show staged by a local theater company, only a short cab ride away. So I went to see it – by myself.
I didn’t have a ticket. I didn’t take a map. I was in Canada, and being a cheap ass I didn’t even have Internet service on my phone. So no ability to have my magic device tell me things. I didn’t care. I was exploring. Not like Edmund Hillary or anything. But like a middle aged business guy in a city.
The show was great. The experience was great. It was about how the decisions we make influenced by our fears and perceptions can get us in trouble. But it had a good ending and a better message about kindness and perseverance. Better yet, I got my time to recharge. I woke up Tuesday morning ready to go.
Not long ago I would have been content to just sit in my room and maybe watch some sports. No longer. If I’m going to travel I may as well explore a bit. It’s a big world – I’m going to check it out. One city at a time.
–Mike
Photo credit: “Solo” originally uploaded by Ruth Flickr
Have you checked out our new video podcast? Rich, Adrian, and Mike get into a Google Hangout and.. hang out. We talk a bit about security as well. We try to keep these to 15 minutes or less, and usually fail.
In case any of you missed it, we published our fifth RSA Conference Guide back in February. Yes, we do mention the conference a bit, but it’s really our ideas about how security will shake out in 2014. You can get the full guide with all the memes you can eat.
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Rich and Adrian are traveling this week, so no Incite from them. I do not judge. Though I point out that I’m on the road as well…